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Tell us who you are.
Fill out a short application. A real matchmaker reads every one and takes the time to get to know you.
New York, San Francisco & Los Angeles
Meet your friend’s friends.
A real matchmaker makes every introduction, one person at a time. The kind of setup a good friend would make. No profile to keep up, no feed, no swiping.
Friends of friends
One person at a time
Mutual by design
Introduced, not swiped
The idea
One introduction. Two answers, kept between you and us. Contact details only after you both say yes.
How it works
Less browsing. Better context.
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Meet one person.
Introductions arrive one at a time, with enough context to make a real decision.
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Decide for yourself.
You each say yes or no on your own. Nobody finds out who passed.
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Take it offline.
After a mutual yes, we share contact details and help turn the introduction into a date.
Good introductions have context
Your people know you.
Members can vouch for people they know. A short note from a friend tells your matchmaker the part a profile never could.
Vouches stay between you and your matchmaker. They are context for us, not content for a feed.
Apply to joinMutuals dinners
Start at the table.
Twelve people. One long table. Monthly dinners in New York, San Francisco and Los Angeles, with no pressure to pair off.
See upcoming dinnersCoaching
A little help, from people who do this.
Dating coaching for members, and couples coaching for the pairs who met through us and the ones who found each other elsewhere.
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Every application is read by a person, and you will hear back either way.
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