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Mutuals

By application · New York & San Francisco

Meet someone worth knowing.

A real matchmaker makes every introduction. One person at a time. No public profile, no feed, no endless swiping.

By application

Private by default

Mutual by design

Introduced, not swiped

The arrangement

One introduction. Two private decisions. Contact details only after a mutual yes.

How it works

Less browsing. Better context.

01

Tell us who you are.

Apply privately. A matchmaker reads every application and gets to know the people invited onto the list.

02

Meet one person.

Introductions arrive one at a time, with enough context to make a real decision.

03

Decide for yourself.

You each say yes or pass in private. No one sees who declined.

04

Take it offline.

After a mutual yes, we share contact details and help turn the introduction into a date.

Good introductions have context

Your people know you.

Members can vouch for people they know. A short note from a friend gives your matchmaker the part a profile cannot.

Vouches stay private. They are context for the matchmaker, not content for a public feed.

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Mutuals dinners

Start at the table.

Twelve people. One long table. Monthly dinners in New York and San Francisco, with no pressure to pair off.

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Coaching

A little help, from people who do this.

Dating coaching for people on the list, and couples coaching for the pairs who met through us and the ones who found each other elsewhere.

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Ready to meet someone worth knowing?

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Every application is read by a person.